Tuesday, February 9, 2016

”I am your friend” project: An inspiring example of welcoming refugee children


Teach GLOBAL CITIZENSHIP Network Newsletter no. 19


”I am your friend” project: An inspiring example of welcoming refugee children

Refugee children, especially from Syria, who have arrived recently in Western countries are striving to become integrated into local schools and neighborhoods. Their experience with terrors of war while fleeing their country, however, is, unfamiliar to their new hosts, except through media reports. 

Following is an inspiring example of an educational initiative being used to inform local children about the realities of war and refugee-situations for newly arriving children. The activities are enabling local children to develop a welcoming attitude to refugee children - while helping them overcome their traumas:


“I am Your Friend!”- Campaign / (in Danish: “#Jeg er din ven! – kampagnen”)

Students in 12 schools in Denmark have produced paintings as gifts to children in Danish refugee centers.  At the end of each project week, the children hand over their pictures to groups of refugee children. Before leaving for the centers however, all the children are filmed while showing their art and shouting loudly, ”I am your friend” (see photo below), which is also the title of this project. This occasion is videotaped at each school, as shown at the Facebook-page:


School children showing their artworks while shouting “I am your friend!”

Hanna Sleman, a Dane with Syrian roots, took the initiative. She says to our local weekly newspaper:

” Children have a huge need to know and understand what goes on in the world.
It is very difficult for children to talk about such complicated topic as war and refugees, and there is not much time to do this in schools.
I contacted the Danish Red Cross when I got the idea to the “I am Your Friend!”-campaign in order to find out if they would open the refugee-centers so children could meet each other, and they were ready right away”

Since September 2015, Hanna Sleman has taken this project to 12 schools. Her working time and all art materials have been sponsored by her place of work, Lekolar-Leika, which is a Scandinavian provider of materials for children´s activities. The 12th school is the final one right now, but she says that she hopes the campaign will go on because there is such a great need for this kind of activity. The project was implemented with children from second grade through ninth grades.

The starting point at each school project has been the thoughts and many questions from the Danish children, which have been addressed by Hanne Selman and other visitors. Next, the children develop ideas on how to welcome the refugee children to Denmark by paintings that are understood across language and cultural barriers.


Examples of childrens´ art gifts



In the photo below, the boy to the right explained to the reporter from our local paper: “The boy is welcomed by two children as well as an elk!”  


Meanwhile, the girl to the far left, Caroline, has painted a girl who hands a flower to a boy while the sun is shining and the national flag is at full mast. She explained, “The boy gets the flower, because he has fled, and the flag means “Welcome!”

Left of center, Sebastian looks forward to handing over his painting of a clown: “When you see a clown, it makes you happy, because a clown is funny. If you are afraid of something, then just look at my painting!”



Parents of the children have followed the projects with great interest, and they have been able to see the results on …

- Facebook: Jeg er din ven (community) https://www.facebook.com/jegerdinven



… which you may do, too. The two sites are in Danish, but the video and photo content is easily assessable to everyone.

Here is a link to morning news in Danish TV: “They send mowing drawings to refugee children: We want to be friends”. The initiator & 2 students are being interviewed in Danish. (07.20.2015)(video)



Translation of the 4-page campaign presentation folder from Danish

Page 1:



#I AM YOUR FRIEND
Link to the Danish version, front page: (jeg_er_din_ven, Instagram)
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Campaign folder, page 2:

– about children embracing children, which they just are so good at. The aim of #Jeg er din ven is to send loving, encouraging thoughts from Danish children to children who are fleeing from war. In this way Danish children are able to spread joy to refugee children while they put into words some of the thoughts and feelings that the war awakens in them.

Twelve schools will get the opportunity to participate in the campaign, and these schools will receive guidelines for preparing “art gifts”. The overall theme of the art gift is friendship, sympathy, and joy. Through images, language, and colors, each student will  develop his or her artwork, e.g., in the form of a painting or poem. Each artwork will subsequently be donated to and exhibited for war-traumatized children in selected asylum centers in Denmark. From child to child, children will learn they can help make a difference: A difference that will provide joy for “war-children” as well as “peace-children”.


Children are the worst victims of war

Children who flee from war are deeply traumatized and in need of love, encouragement, and friendships. They arrive here with cruel memories and experiences. Danish children may help them calm their state of mind.

#Jeg er din ven also focuses on Danish children. Lately, the war has moved closer, and children have no doubt seen or heard about wars in other countries – either on TV, social media or because adults talk about it. Children are by nature very empathetic, and it affects them to know that children (especially) are suffering.

This campaign may be used to inform children about war and answer questions while at the same providing opportunities to formulate in words and express in actions the emotions it arouses in them.”
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Link to the Danish version, campaign folder page 2: (jeg_er_din_ven, Instagram)




Campaign folder, page 3:

War is a difficult and - for many people - an abstract topic. Therefore it may be nice to paint or write about your feelings. A kind of therapy, #I am your friend, may make a difference for peace-children as well as war-children.”

About the Initiator

“My name is Hanna and I am Syrian. Syria is a matter near to my heart, and which I am passionate about. Like many other people I cherish great hopes that there will be a solution to this humanitarian disaster.
Furthermore, I am a mother and I work at Lekolar-Leika This means, that I am in every way passionate and focused on children and well-being – childrens need of security, learning, joy creativity, activity, and friendships.

I have taken the initiative to develop this campaign, with support from my employer Lekolar-Leika, because I see a fantastic opportunity: We are able to create the preconditions for the above mentioned for Danish as well as refugee children. THE NEED IS REAL.”
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Sherin Kankan, leader of “Exitcirklen – Nej til psykisk vold”:

“The campaign #Jeg er din ven contains elements of cognitive therapy as the project focuses on the links between children´s thoughts, feelings, behavior, and physiology.
Children transform their thoughts, emotions and bodily sensations into action. The process of shaping and creating art for refugee children is a fantastic way to restructure children´s anxious thoughts, feelings, and bodily sensations of war into something positive.
The campaign gives knowledge about a complicated topic and may help to restructure something violent and negative to something positive. The campaign builds a bridge between cultures and religions and is based on social solidarity, trust, and friendship between children.”


Link to the Danish version, campaign folder page 3: (jeg_er_din_ven, Instagram)
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Campaign folder page 4:

Anna Prip. Social educator, trauma & family therapist:

“To create something creative is one of the ways children express their love. We know it as grown ups: When we are in contact with children, then they generously give away drawings etc.
Children, who have been subjected to shocking and dramatic events, may need to process the violent impressions, so they restore their autonomy and sense of mastering life little by little.
They need to know at the same time, that they are connected to someone, who wishes them well. This helps them to rediscover calmness.

When children experience that others suffer, then they react naturally by wanting to give care. If this is not possible, then they suffer, too.  Actually, this is a known method of torture to let children attend that other people are being exposed to violent acts without being able to help. It may create a sense of powerlessness that is so pervasive that they can become depressed, react with aggressive behavior or it may affect the child’s development. Some of the refugee children that come to Denmark have that kind of experiences. And some Danish children have seen and heard media news, which they have found it difficult to react to.

#Jeg er din ven is a unique opportunity to combine creative expression with a basic sense of cohesion, which calms the autonomic nervous system. Thus all participants’ moves on after being strengthened and enriched. Change in children is best created in communities of children that are grounded in creativity and kindness.”

Link to the Danish version, page 4: (jeg_er_din_ven, Instagram)


Contact & information for those of you who consider doing something like this

Contact Hanna Sleman hanna.sleman@lekolar.dk  & Egon Hedegaard eghedegaard@gmail.com
The project guidelines for preparing “art gifts” will be available in English as well as Danish.




Further resources on children and traumatic experiences

- “Talk to your kids about refugees” 
Five pieces of advice from Danish Red Barnet (Save the Children):

Talk to your kids about TV-time
Listen attentively to your kids
Give children reassurance
Be open
Let the children help

Source: In Danish: “Tal med dit barn om flygtningenes situation” (article, website)



“How to talk to your kids about refugees”

In this Time article the focus is differentiated: There´s advice on how to talk to elementary age kids, middle school kids and high school students.
Finally, it´s emphasized that “… at all ages, perhaps the most important thing a family or child can do is to make friends with refugees—the best way to both learn, and give something of ourselves.”




Talk about it... with every child: - a book about anxiety, depression, stress and trauma  
by Karen Glistrup  (Author)

See page 18-19 on traumas in this extract:

English version: (amazon.com)

German version: “Was ist bloß mit Mama los?: Wenn Eltern in seelische Krisen geraten. Mit Kindern über Angst, Depression, Stress und Trauma sprechen”



Danish version: “Snak om det … med alle børn”

Uddrag, focus på traumer på side 18-19 (uddrag.pdf)




Psychological first aid: Guide for field workers
This guide from “World Health Organization” “… covers psychological first aid which involves humane, supportive and practical help to fellow human beings suffering serious crisis events. It is written for people in a position to help others who have experienced an extremely distressing event. It gives a framework for supporting people in ways that respect their dignity, culture and abilities.”
Download the guide and choose between 17 languages: (64 pages, pdf)

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Last words
We live in times of migration, and there´s more refugees in the world than ever since The Second World War. Our children, our societies and we have to develop new and respectful ways to deal with this now and in the future.



All links were retrieved January 2016

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